2009年10月23日星期五

想法

我觉得每个人的想法真的有很大的分别
对我来说
上天不是公平的
唯一对人类公平的事
就是我们每一个人都是有24小时
不是吗?
但是
如果说除此之外
上天对人类还是公平的话
那我就一点都不认同了
如果它是公平的话
那么世界上就不会有down syndrome的人
就不会有受病痛折磨的人
不是吗?
不是每一个人天生就是聪明的
不是每一个人天生读书就很厉害
一些人
怎么用功都好
成绩都是差的
好不过别人
好不过那些有天聪的人
每一个人都有不同方面的天分
就好象我哥哥一样
他不厉害读书
但是他剪头发很厉害
那不就是他的天分吗?
如果每一个人都读书厉害
那么世界上低程的工作谁来做?
所以
不要再说别人了
他不是懒
他不想笨的
谁喜欢给人说自己笨的?
没有人喜欢啊!
你有没有想过,
这是他自己要求我教他的
我没有拿着一把刀去逼他读书的
前途是他自己的
我没有权利去管
但是我能帮到多少
我就尽量帮啊
如果给他他知道有人在他的背后这样说他
他又什么感受?
他未必接受得到
不是吗?
做人不要只是站在自己的方面想
你也要站在他的方面帮他想想啊
他现在想读书
想爬上来
但是没有人帮他的话
没有人鼓励他的话
他怎样站?
站了起来还不就一样会被人压回下去???
想想吧,
我也不想再为了这件事情不愉快了。

3 条评论:

  1. I dont agree wat ever u write on this blog....fully not agree..the world is fair enough ..just all of you not appreciate what u have and wat u dont have,dont compare yourself with all those who is down syndrome,you n your new brother is a normal guy,both of you are normal!i believe if he hardworking enough,no one will stupid,just all of you lazy,many others reason that discourage you all not study,dont always charge people with your option, not that i want 2 praise myself so much,i had seen many people attitude,one look on them is enough for me judge someone!ok if you say so,monday i will check your brother history,see whether he is one of de down syndrome ppl or a lazy guy!Actually i was really angry ,when i m tuition there last nite, i was totally angry and my tears drop inside my heart,when i m riding bike home,i keep on wonder why i want 2 care so much for you? why i should scould you? why i should correct you?WhY? why dont you trying 2 understand me? Noone understand me before ,but the fact is myself sometimes dont even understand myself,after all i had been before, i already change a lot,more than you all can think,someday u will find yourself on my situation,that time you will agree me...U will!
    another point,your brother find a new way for him,he had choose another road.not many people can always choose their favourite occupation themself!not!He is just one of the lucky one!Nobody is stupid in this world,especially U! u cant even say the world is not fair! I didnt stop u from teaching others wat u have,just this is not the time you save people, u can give all your knowledge 2 anyone after this exam.This exam decide your golden path! U can help many ppl in the future especially when u have ability to do that...this is wat i want 2 say! Correct me again if i say wrongly..i wont blame u , i will help u to see the beyond world, u can see manything when u learn this from me...another thinking!i am willing to help u no matter wat cost me..

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  2. 我还是很生气,真的很生气,我并不是一位自私的人,我只是关心你的学业而已,你却以为我自私,不让你教人,说我看低人,我承认我有错,错在太关心你,错在对你太直接,错在我说话不圆滑,错在以为你会明白我为什么会阻止你教他!

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  3. i dun know what i should write here..
    i know you are angry..
    but i also..
    okay..
    you say the god is fair enough to all of us..
    ok..
    i temporary accept this opinion...
    but now my brother want to learn..
    i can see that when chee fong teach him,
    he learn it with full heart..
    he is very concentrate..
    so y i cant teach him?
    i know when i m in state library,
    i cant concentrate to study ..
    so i choose a way to teach ppl,..
    somehow i think i can do my revision when i teach ppl..
    i know...
    some ppl is lazy..
    i m also lazy..
    but now at least i know how to hardworking..
    i sacrifice a lot of thing..
    i know what is important and what is not important..
    beside studying..
    i think i need to relax also..
    now i din watch movie..
    i just find a way to teach ppl subject and this mean can relax myself...
    is it cant?
    and also..
    one thing that i dislike is..
    everyone has their own maruah...
    we should not look down on them...
    that day in the state library..
    you said so loudly...
    what is the feeling my brother will feel when he heard that?
    we need to think before we said..
    and we should not hurt ppl feeling..
    that day he try to learn something..
    how can you say like that?
    he is lazy...
    but at least now he know hardworking..
    is it correct?
    the selfish i mean is think before you want to criticised ppl..
    if not..
    ppl will not happy only.
    i know you treat me good...
    it is because you treat me as a friend..
    you dun want i lose in this exam...
    however..thanks..

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